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Coronavirus - How to Keep Your Elderly Parents Safe How Do We Get Elderly Parents to follow Coronavirus Self Isolation? - Vine Psychic

Are you worried about the safety of your elderly parents in their homes during the coronavirus pandemic?

Join the queue. Many families are having trouble getting their elderly parents to cooperate with self-isolation advice and there's a spiritual reason why.

If you were to ask people around the world what is one of their greatest worries during the coronavirus pandemic, it would be making sure their family is safe. A lot of families are dealing with elderly parents who live in their own homes. They are used to their own ways and not wanting to accept the advice of their children.

Are you frustrated that your elderly parents aren't listening to self-isolation advice?

Are you dealing with issues like your elderly parents comparing the coronavirus outbreaks to ordinary flu? Or downplaying the importance of social distancing and wanting to visit their friends or trot off to the shops?

Have you tried to have a conversation with them about coming to live in your home so you can make sure they’re okay during a complete shutdown?

Sometimes it's possible to have your parents stay with you, but will they want to leave their own homes?

When you ask if they have stocked their cupboard with food, are you finding that they're only telling you want you want to hear?

"Mum, do you have enough food and toiletries to last for awhile if there is a shutdown?”

"Yes dear, I have tomatoes, and cucumber and your father has got pumpkins in the garden".

That doesn't tell you much. Unless you can visit their home and check out their food supplies. You have no idea if the information your parents are sharing with you is accurate.

One of my customers told me that she suspected her eighty-year old mother was not telling the truth. She would pause in their conversations and then rush to change the subject.

If you are one of the many adult children in Australia and around the world trying to deal with uncooperative parents, I'm going to explain what is happening and what I was spiritually guided.

You can leave fresh fruit & veges etc. at the door. Make sure you have washed your hands and the food as much as possible before delivering. If you can't get there and your parents are locked down, check for community food service deliveries (eg. Meals on Wheels in Australia)

Many Older Parents Compare Life Experiences

Our elderly parents have lived through extreme life experiences. Some of them can recall difficult times during wars, financial hardships and dysfunctional families. They didn't have the same type of support networks we have come to rely upon today.

The friends they trust and have socialised with are often used as their communication channel on a daily basis. They get news from radio channels that they discuss in their social circles. Some of the radio stations they use as their 'reputable' resource are inclined to lean towards conservative shock jocks, who downplay pandemic information.

Have you heard radio and tv commentators describing the coronavirus as mainly mild cases? This comes across to an elderly parent as if it's not a big deal.

Many of our elder parents only get their information from one source, conservative radio shock jocks who are still misleading their listeners. It's important that your parents also get another point of view.

Mixed Messages from Media

The mixed messages they are receiving can cause some older parents to be quite confrontational if you try to warn them about the dangers of not preparing for a pandemic.

You might have experienced the following:

  1. You will be told you are worrying too much
  2. There is no evidence to back up what you are sharing
  3. They haven't heard the information from the Prime Minister, or a political leader
  4. Their friends have told them its nothing to be concerned about
  5. They shut off mentally, because it doesn't make them feel good
  6. Your parents have a routine, visiting their local shops, catching up with neighbours and their friends and don't want anything to disrupt that routine etc.

There are many reasons your elderly parents may fail to listen to what you are telling them.

Trusting the Overriding Authority

I've been spiritually guided that our elderly parents have been conditioned as children to believe in an overriding authority figure.

Often they received very strong discipline as children and were culturally conditioned to believe those in leadership would tell them the truth. It is difficult for them to break the cycle - especially when they trust unreliable media and are used to getting all their information from their friends and insular social media groups.

The media rely upon the elderly being conditionally receptive to news. It is why conservative media force-feed information about politics to get them to vote a certain way. They are encouraged to have prejudices about outsiders and some of our elderly can be racist, which can shock the younger generation. But you have to remember they were conditioned to think this way.

How Do We Get Elderly Parents to Listen to Good Advice on Social Distancing?

Firstly you need to reassure your parents that you have their best interests at heart. I am guided you need to explain that you're aware they are used to trusting in the authority of media sources and the government, and you're not wanting to confuse them.

Reassure them that you know how they feel.

There's a lot of changes to process and it can be overwhelming, so you may need to break the conversation down into smaller chats.

Discuss the issue that is the most relevant. If it's about helping them understand the pandemic, then only concentrate on this to begin with. If you have any reliable media they can listen to, send them a video of an expert who speaks in clear, concise language. Don't overcomplicate the media source.

Let them absorb your information and then ask questions. They might need a whole day to take in the information. That's okay.

My Experience - Relaying Spiritual Channeling Guidance about Global Pandemic Disease

After I was guided what was coming in November, I started to share information with the public and my customers over a period of months. It was not immediately believed and that is okay. It is important to not blindly trust anything, especially when we are born with 'free will'.

It is hard for our elderly parents to give up their normal routine. Be patient. Let them absorb the information.

Processing Information

It is important to process information in our own way. This is what our elderly parents are doing as well. They need more time to grasp that they have to make serious lifestyle adjustments.

Once you have got them to understand the urgency, they will be more receptive to what you are going to discuss next.

You need to be honest with them. You have to make sure they have their affairs in order and the whole family is in agreement with their wishes if they are of 'sound mind'. You cannot force them to do something they are not comfortable with.

Then you have to accept their decision. As difficult as it may be to let your elderly parents make their own life decisions during a pandemic, you have to find peace that you have given them the right information, helped them with their decision process and then allowed them to make their own choices.

There are many families who are scattered in different states and countries all over the world. It is important to have a heart to heart conversation about the worse case outcome (catching coronavirus and dying). None of this is going to be easy.

As a spiritual seer I have done many readings over the years and I'm aware you want to know your loved ones are okay. Make sure you let your nearest and dearest know how much they mean to you. Don't live with regrets or guilt and wishing you could have done things differently.

I hope this guidance gives you an understanding of why its not going to be easy to discuss the life and death outcomes of the coronavirus pandemic.

Rest assured I am still doing phone psychic readings for clients Australia and Worldwide, who need one-on-one assistance to manage these type of family issues. I am here, if you need me.

Love and Light,

Vine