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INTRODUCING: #VM-PRIDE

We're a RAD-sponsored affinity group of LGBTQ+ people and allies, focused on creating a space to speak freely, respectfully and with pride within the walls of VaynerX. Curious? Join our open slack channel #vm-pride!

Make sure to check-out Pride events in your city.

NYC / LA / ‘Nooga / London

HISTORY OF PRIDE

New York City was the birthplace of Pride in 1970, one year after the Stonewall Riots. The riots, which spanned over three days, were some of the most prominent instances in which LGBTQ+ people resisted against police discrimination. This moment is often credited as the start of the modern gay liberation movement, which later expanded into the larger LGBTQ+ rights movement.

When speaking about the origins of Pride, it’s important to understand that the movement started thanks to trans women of color like Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera, both present during the first riot of June 28, 1969.

THE FLAG

Designed by Gilbert Baker in 1978, the rainbow flag today stands as a universal symbol of pride, inclusivity and our continuous growing pains as we speak our truths and stand our grounds. Initially consisting of eight colors: pink, red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and violet, representative of sexuality, life, healing, sun, nature, art, harmony, and spirit. While only six colors stand (due to visual symmetry and other complications), the rainbow flag remains a seal of a welcoming space in establishments, parades and as a everyday use in our social representation. Wear it proudly.

RISING STARS

The new generation of LGBTQ+ stars are out, proud and unapologetic – providing mainstream visibility like never before.

Hayley Kiyoko: Actress, model, songwriter and singer – Hayley Kiyoko’s fame reached an all time high after the release of her debut album Expectations. Kiyoko’s lyrics and self-directed music videos explore her journey coming to terms with her sexuality.

Troye Sivan: Youtube influencer turned pop star, out and proud artist Troye Sivan took the world by storm with his 2015 debut album Blue Neighborhood. His second album, Bloom, is set to come out on August 2018… so look out for it!

Kehlani: Singer Kehlani has been in the scene since her debut album You Should Be Here, but it was the 2017 SweetSexySavage that proved the artist was here to stay. Kehlani previously identified as bisexual, but has since come out as queer.

Kim Petras: This pop singer-songwriter first made headlines 10 years ago for being one of the youngest people in the world to undergo gender confirmation surgery. Now, she’s outranking many in Spotify plays with her new music, like the popular Heart to Break.

Awkwafina: Born Nora Lum, this Queens-born actress and rapper first gained success after her 2013 song "My Vag" went viral. Now, you’ll be able to see her acting in two of Summer’s most anticipated hits: Ocean’s 8 and Crazy Rich Asians. Now go listen to her new EP ‘In Fina We Trust’ to be ahead of the bandwagon, cause it’s coming.

Nico Tortorella: From leading hunk to Queer icon, Nico rose to fame on the TV show Younger opposite of Sutton Foster. He’s since come out at pansexual and genderfluid and hosts a popular podcast – The Love Bomb. Check out his fun and insightful Drag Makeover, courtesy of Trinity Taylor.

Cakes da Killa: This Brooklyn based artist released his debut album ‘Hedonism’ in 2014, and his music is a perfect mix of killer rap verses and EDM electronic club music. Check out ‘Living Gud, Eating Gud.’

Pabllo Vittar: From a viral world hit K.O., to iconic collabs with Anitta, Diplo and Charli XCX – Brazilian drag queen singer-songwriter Pabllo Vittar is claiming her title as Brazil's queen of pop while breaking down gender stereotypes and creating a safe space for her fans. Listen to her Portuguese pop album 'Vai Passar Mal.'

WHO YOU SHOULD KNOW BY NOW

Janelle Monáe: Mostly known for her music, this incredibly talented Queer singer, songwriter, rapper, record producer, actress, and model is also known for being one of the faces of CoverGirl and her breakout roles in In 2016 films Hidden Figures and Moonlight. Her newest critically acclaimed visual album ‘Dirty Computer' includes major bops like Pynk.

Laverne Cox: An American actress and LGBTQ+ advocate that rose to fame as Sophia Burset on the Netflix series Orange Is the New Black, becoming the first openly transgender person to be nominated for a Primetime Emmy Award in the acting category, and the first to be nominated for an Emmy Award since 1990. In 2015, she won a Daytime Emmy Award in Outstanding Special Class Special as executive producer for Laverne Cox Presents: The T Word.

Frank Ocean: If you haven’t ever heard about Frank Ocean, stop what you’re doing and listen to 'Thinking ‘Bout You' from his debut album Channel Orange right now. Previously a ghostwriter for other artists, Ocean broke out into the scene with his mixtape, Nostalgia, Ultra. His most recent album Blonde debuted at number 1 in several countries, including the US, and was an instant cultural phenomenon.

Perfume Genius: Perfume Genius is the stage name for Seattle-based solo artist Mike Hadreas. His music spans from vulnerable piano ballads to swaggering glam rock as he explores subjects like sexuality with brutal and poetic honesty. Check out the video for ‘Queen’!

Big Freedia: This New Orleans artist is credited for helping popularize an underground genre within hip-hop called Bounce. Her breakout album was 2003’s Queen Diva, but this drag queen has since released new projects like ‘Just Be Free’ and ‘3rd Ward Bounce’. You’ll definitely recognize her as the intro voice over on Drake’s ‘Nice for What’.

Adam Rippon & Gus Kenworthy: From the Winter Olympics to Dancing with the Stars, these Out athletes and besties have always used their new platforms to advocate Human Rights, and sometimes to feud with Mike Pence. The duo most recently co-hosted TrevorLive, a fundraising event offering a celebratory evening of impact and awareness for the suicide prevention resources and crisis intervention services offered by The Trevor Project.

MEDIA

POSE

The FX series by Ryan Murphy (known for Glee, American Horror Story, American Crime Story, etc) features the largest cast of transgender actors in series-regular roles as well as the largest recurring LGBTQ cast ever for a scripted U.S. TV series.

RUPAUL'S DRAG RACE

Known amongst fans as the Super Bowl of Drag, RuPaul’s Drag Race is soon wrapping up its 10th main season, and that’s without counting 3 All-Star Spin Off Seasons (and some of the original fans may also remember RuPaul’s Drag U). The show has been incredibly popular amongst gay men for years, but ever since VH1 picked it up 2 seasons ago it has blown up in mainstream culture to the point that gay bars are getting as packed as sports bars during big games. RuPaul, who hosts and produces the show, is an American drag queen, actor, model, singer, songwriter, television personality, and author. He’s been active since 1979, appearing in classic Queer films like “But I’m a Cheerleader” – and was named one of Time’s Most Influential people as recently as 2017.

QUEER EYE

A revival of the popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy from the early 2000s, Netflix recently launched season 1 to so much acclaim that season 2 is just around the corner. Check out the music video for season two featuring the incredible Betty Who and the new Fab 5 above!

them

Condé Nast’s new publication chronicles and celebrates the stories, people and voices that are emerging and inspiring all of us, ranging in topics from pop culture and style to politics and news, all through the lens of today’s LGBTQ community.

MANDATORY VIEWING

PARIS IS BURNING

This documentary focuses on drag queens and trans women living in New York City and their "house" culture, which provides a sense of community and support for the flamboyant and often socially shunned performers. 99% of “gay slang” became mainstream through the release of this iconic documentary. Check out out.com’s handy viewing guide, full of backstory and terms.

The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson

Marsha P. Johnson is one of the icons of the gay rights movement in the 1960s, the self-described "street queen of NY's gay ghetto", and founder of the Transvestites Action Revolutionaries with fellow luminary Sylvia Rivera. When Johnson's body was found in the Hudson River in 1992, police called it a suicide and didn't investigate. In David France's new documentary, trans activist Victoria Cruz seeks to uncover the truth behind Marsha P. Johnson’s death.

HOW YOU CAN BE A GOOD ALLY

Vote for Queer candidates and politicians who constantly advocate for equality, especially for Trans people and people of color. Luckily, the HRC ranks elected officials based on their platforms.

It’s 2018, ya’ll. If you’re unsure about the differences between Sex and Gender are, and why you should NEVER ask a trans person about their private parts – or anyone, for that matter, a quick Google search can make a world of difference.

Themes about Queer identities are constantly evolving, so don’t worry if you don’t feel like you’re an expert overnight. When in doubt, look to LGBTQ+ people you trust for first person perspectives on navigating the world as someone who is Queer.

HOW BRANDS CAN BE GOOD ALLIES

DO take a stand: Don’t be on the wrong side of history. Make your stance as an ally loud and clear, in both your communications and actions. If you’re not saying anything at all, you’re taking the side of the haters.

AT&T made their ally stance clear this year by partnering with The Trevor Project, a crisis counseling service for LGBTQ youth, and providing over $1.5M in donations and services.

DON’T think we aren’t looking at your entire brand -- we expect more than rainbow-colored merch and messaging in June. We are paying attention to how your company (and the people running it) act all year round. This includes oppressive employee environments, discriminatory policies and corporate contributions to hateful causes.

DO spotlight your LGBTQ+ consumers by giving them a platform to speak, not by speaking for them.

This June, Twitch is spotlighting a different LGBTQ+ creator on its front page every day, giving them the chance to have their voice heard by a wider audience.

DON’T fall back on lazy, embarrassing or diminutive cliches in your communications. Remember that you can celebrate Pride without appropriating gay culture and colloquialisms. And if you’re not sure then ask your employees and your consumers!

DO represent diversity -- LGBTQ+ represents an entire spectrum, make sure you’re doing your best to give visibility to all ethnicities, body types and gender identities.

Last year, Equinox partnered with The LGBT Community Center in NYC to create “LGBTQAlphabet”-- a campaign that celebrates representation from A-Z.

DON’T be defensive if you miss the mark -- own up to mistakes, listen to criticism, keep trying.

DO share that profit -- seeing a spike in sales thanks to your Pride-centric marketing? Make sure you’re sharing it with the community.

This year, companies like Converse, American Eagle, Harrys and Levis are donating 100% of the profits from their Pride merch to LGBTQ+ focused charities.

WORDS TO APPRECIATE, NOT APPROPRIATE

Used mostly between gay men and in the drag community, when someone’s face is beat it means their makeup is flawless.

Usually comes in the form of a backhanded compliment or a harsh gaze, throwing shade is a form of insult that maintains plausible deniability so that the shade-thrower can pretend that they didn't actually mean it.

Not to be confused with throwing shade – when you read someone you, you’re calling out one of their flaws to their face. Accurate reads irrefutable because they’re based on facts.

Feel a little lost? So did these older gays when presented with other terms. Check them out!

TERMS TO KNOW

Previously used as a slur, the younger generation of “Queers” has taken ownership of the term because it is inclusive to every member of the community.

The opposite of transgender, cisgender describes a person who is comfortable with the gender they were assigned at birth.

A form of gender identity or expression that falls outside of just Female or Male.

Gender neutral pronouns you should be using when referencing people who have not disclosed their gender identity to you.

Not to be confused with your friend who is a girl, saying someone is your girlfriend implies a romantic relationship, so let’s keep this clear.

HELP THE LGBTQ+

While there has been a lot of progress toward equality for the LGBTQ+ community in recent years, not every battle has been won yet. In many states, workplaces are still allowed to discriminate against someone based on their sexuality and gender identity, and LGBTQ+ youth are disproportionately at risk of homelessness.

Consider helping out one of the following organizations dedicated to helping members of this community:

[BONUS!] PUT ON YOUR READING GLASSES

'Call Me by Your Name' Is the Straightest Gay Movie Ever / Hello Mr. / 'Disobedience': Rachel Weisz and Rachel McAdams love story beautifully handled / All-Star Revival of Boys in the Band just opened on Broadway / Angels in America Rises Again / The vibrant ‘House of Impossible Beauties’ is an intersectional triumph / CrossFit fires executive who said LGBT Pride events were a sin in homophobic rant / The American Revolution’s Greatest Leader was Openly Gay / Candidate for Maryland governor airs first campaign ad ever with same-sex kiss

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