Lord, I have heard Your voice. You counseled me and gave me light. You gave me help and guidance I needed because I was completely blind. Lord, as I choose to obey Your word, please fill me with grace to obey your word in truth, and demonstrate the fruits of my faith, in Jesus name, Amen.
Lord, I sincerely and intimately accept and embrace __________. I am not suspicious of him/her. I am not afraid of what he/she might do to me. I am not afraid of him/her abandoning me. I give to him/her my complete sincere and intimate acceptance and embrace with all my heart soul mind and strength, as unto You Lord. Because I love You, I accept and love __________ deeply, regardless of his response. I choose to love and forgive him/her.
Lord, I chose to provide care and provision both physical & emotional. I will be present and offer my support and care for his/her needs, physical and emotional regardless of his/her appreciation and desire for my support because I love You Lord.
Lord, as __________ offers token and feigned expressions of allegiance to me, I will accept his/her expressions, not because I need them or want them, but to honor him/her and help alleviate the fear and pressure that drives this action. I will graciously receive these expressions in Your compassion and gentleness because I love You Lord.
With my words and thoughts, I will focus on God’s blessings and favor and calling through all the evil events of the past, not pressing any blame upon __________. I will discourage him/her from being angry with him/herself, pointing to the Lord who has helped us through all things for his glory and honor.
So, I will focus on the light, and not the darkness so that I will not become blind again, and hate my brother. I will deny myself the liberty to accuse him/her of evil and demand restitution and repentance. Rather I will view the suffering of my past at his/her hand- as God’s will, so that we could receive His blessings and help others.
Forgive me Lord for focusing on his/her sin and blaming him/her. Help me instead to forgive and instead attribute glory and honor to You for Your provision through all the past.
In Jesus name, I give up my right for restitution because of the sins committed, I give up my right in the courts of this world- and in the heavenlies,
I ask that his sins not be attributed to him/her. Instead I ask that he be forgiven of all the sins committed against me. financially, emotionally, physically, verbally, or spirituality .
I choose to forgive and ask that these things be removed from his record. But I look to You Lord and I ask You for blessings to fill our lives through my choice to forgive.
And I ask Your help, so that I would remain in a forgiving state toward him/her and all people forever, in Jesus name, Amen.
Declaration of Faith:
__________ is cleansed and forgiven. I am clean and free to love. I choose to think on what is good concerning him/her. I choose to speak uplifting kind words only to him/her. I chose to withhold negative thoughts and words from him/her and about him/her. I chose to find small acts of kindness to demonstrate my love and care. I am FREE. I am empowered by the Holy Spirit to love.
Prayer of Thanks to God and request for his help:
Thank You God, fill me with Your thoughts, dreams, and counsel so that I would make good plans for my words and deeds in expressing sincere love. In Jesus name, Amen.