How sexy do you want to get?
This is definitely a question to think about. Having a boudoir session is about being sensual and sexy. We like to call the studio your sexy safe space. There is never judgement and egos are encouraged.
This is always about you and your comfort level but we do like to give a little nudge to get out of your comfort zone. If you tell us you want to get super sexy during your session then we will suggest that type of posing always with your final say. What we mean by that is, if we ask you to do a pose and it is way out of your comfort zone then you just say the word. This works both ways. If you want to get sexier than what we are asking never hesitate to speak up. We never want you to leave the studio thinking I wish I would have done that or I wish I wouldn't have done that.
An example we like to use is this: If you tell us that nudes are a maybe or full breast shots then we will ask during the session if you are ready to do them. This is never us pushing for you to do any type of shot. We have found that it is much easier for us to ask the client in some cases than it is for the client to say "hey will you take picture of me naked now?" or "can I take my bra off for some shots".
We do have our limits and lines we do not cross. Everything we do is always tasteful and never smutty or raunchy. There is a fine line that is walked with boudoir and we never cross it putting our photography into a completely different category. What we do is always sensual, sexy, limit pushing but always tasteful and artistic.