Nobody but you has the ability to change your circumstances but I am living proof that things will not change until you do. You may be looking at things that have you beaten to the core. Broken in your faith, hurt by people, sore by circumstance. I am not just telling you not to give up. NO! I am telling you that it is dire that you change your outlook because by succumbing to the pain of the circumstance itself you are completely overlooking the golden nugget hidden within the adversity of the situation. There is always payback for your pain, but you have to be open to it. Ask around. Nothing great ever came to anyone without great hardship in some area or another. It's mandatory! It's like the success final exams. This is why people say the phrase, "if you are going through hell, keep going!"
In turn, there ar many things that occur during that hyphen between our birth date and death date. Many highs, and many lows, many successes, and many failures. But what matters most is that we do not dwell on the things that are not so great in our lives but find the things we are most grateful for and focus on them. It's the law of attraction in action. It is indeed a simple practice, yet can be difficult getting started and staying consistent. Redirect your thoughts in those tough times by finding just one thing you are appreciative of. Something of beauty. Something truly magnificent, no matter how big or small it is. Take just a moment and ponder on it and not the challenge itself. Overload your senses with positivity and watch how a solution comes to you like a ray of sunlight on a gloomy day. It may sound whimsical or a little outside of the norm, but think about it, most great things are just that!