What I wish I would have known as an age group swimmer

By Temarie Tomley, Swimming World College Intern

After celebrating my recent birthday, I realized just how old I’ve gotten and how long I’ve been in this game. I’ve been swimming for 15 years, and in those 15 years I have learned so much. Everyone’s journey through this sport is different, and here I just want to share a little bit of what I wish I’d known when I was a young age group swimmer. I want you to picture a girl, a little girl with multi-colored nails. She’s wearing a cap with her ears sticking out, eyes wide and a smile even wider. Her reversible suit has dolphins on it, and it’s her favorite. That was me.

If I could go back and talk to that girl, the first thing I would tell her is that this sport will beat you to the bottom of the pool more times than you will be able to count… but every single time you will rise back better, stronger, with something new learned.

This sport has taught me more about myself and who I want to be than any school classroom. It’s taught me who I am, how strong I am, and that I can do anything. I’ve learned to be a teammate, to smile and laugh through the hard times, to love myself and others, to forgive and be forgiven, and how to be the best athlete I can be. This sport doesn’t discriminate against who you are, it will take you in and forever change your life.

It all starts with training, and as a young swimmer, you don’t have any idea about the years of grueling training ahead and the amount of sacrifices you will have to make. It creeps up on you slowly, and suddenly you’re in the midst of an impossible threshold set and you don’t know how you got there or whether you’re going to make it through. You will be tested every day in the pool, both mentally and physically, but I’d tell that little girl that it’s worth every second when you reach those goals.

The second piece of advice I’d want to tell my younger self is that I’m the tortoise and not the hare.

Everything is going to work out, but you have to be patient. Slow and steady training will win the race in the end. Throughout my career, I’m usually not the one having huge time drops, although they have occurred. I’m the one who consistently gets better every season, a little at a time.

Everyone wants those huge breakout swims, but it’s the slow and steady swimmers, the determined swimmers improving a little bit at a time, who will push through, surprise themselves, and usually continue with the sport the longest. These little time drops always kept me hungry and wanting more, so I was always motivated to work harder. I would want myself to know back then that I will get there, and that I will keep getting better.

The next thing I would tell myself is how awesome I am.

I don’t know how many kids are out there who tell themselves this, but I wasn’t one of them. I never believed I was that good of a swimmer. I was always too hard on myself and didn’t really know how to love myself like I loved the sport I was playing. Because of that, I didn’t have a lot of confidence and struggled to own who I was. This got worse in high school, but it was something I finally learned when I got to college.

I don’t think kids are told how amazing they are every day and how much they have to offer the world, swimming or otherwise. Swimming was always my safe haven and was a place where I loved to go and felt like I could be myself. It was the one place where I felt like everything was right and where I felt like I was always supposed to be. I knew I was meant to swim, so that’s what I did. And I haven’t looked back since. My only regret from my early swimming days is missing out on the joy and confidence I have now.

I would tell my little self to take a second and breathe.

To just look around and appreciate where I’m at and the people I’m with. To enjoy a body that can just keep going like the Energizer bunny and can put away pounds of food like it’s my job. To step away from the pool and enjoy more things away from it. To realize how blessed I am and to not only thank God for everything, but give Him all the glory.

To ease up on myself and be able to look back and see how my work is paying off. To see where I came from and where I’m going because, ultimately, if you don’t become a better person in the process, you are missing the point. If there’s anything that’s true it’s that swimming will always be there, has always been there, so don’t forget about your life outside the water as well.

And it’s okay to not be the best at 12, or 13, or even 14.

Be a kid, take breaks in between seasons, and miss a few practices. You don’t need to worry about fast suits or rankings yet. Keep playing soccer and basketball. You are not just one stroke or event – try everything. Don’t worry about double practices or weights until junior year of high school – you don’t have to be the biggest yet. Don’t worry about not breaking a minute in the 100 free right this second – you’ll be under 50 seconds in no time.

Make the mistakes now. This is the time to make them and learn from them: have your goggles fall off, start swimming the wrong event or the wrong stroke, and have your suit rip right before a race. You are still too young to try and get it all right all the time.

I’d tell myself that hard work will make you happy.

Talent and ribbons and medals and first place finishes won’t because they don’t mean anything right now. The only thing that truly will make you happy and will matter is the toughness you put into every practice and race. And when you do succeed because of that hard work you’ll be able to look back on everything you’ve done and be proud of yourself. You will know that you gave it everything you had. When the doubt comes creeping in, the only thing you will have is yourself and how much work you did or didn’t put in.

Finally, I would say to my little age group self to always believe in yourself and your goals and dreams because there are so many great big things that are waiting.

I hope everybody finds the same love that I have found in swimming because it and the people in it have taught me so many things that I am beyond grateful for. Even with all of my knowledge and experience, I am still only a student to the sport. I hope that as I continue on this swim journey, to not only keep on learning and getting better, but to also be able to teach and help others in ways that I wasn’t. I have managed to continue to love this sport for 15 years and I know I will continue to love it for the rest of my life.

And although I can’t fit into that old favorite dolphin-patterned suit of mine anymore, I still have the same big eyes, wide smile, and love for the sport of swimming.

Check out this video the Senior Prep and Gold group watched during classroom time

7 Facts about Swimming Plateaus

BY OLIVIER POIRIER-LEROY

Plateaus! Kind of the worst.

And sadly, an extremely familiar experience to just about anyone who has ever laced up a swim suit and spent half their year swimming counter-clockwise around a black line.

Some of MC Plateau’s chart toppers include:

• “I worked my tail off all year (and added ten seconds to my best time)”
• “No matter how hard I work in practice I can’t seem to improve (not awesome).”
• “I almost went a best time during an impossibly tough practice last week (and then swam slower in competition).”

While there should be some comfort in knowing that they happen to everyone (hey, that Michael Phelps guy barely went a best time between 2009-2016 if that helps), it doesn’t make them any less confusing or frustrating.

Swimmers are at their best when they are working hard and seeing the results from their hard work. So I can understand how un-fun working your tail off for 20+ hours a week can be when you are seeing the same or worse results from it.

Here’s what swimmers (and swim parents!) need to know about this scary and also super common phenomenon.

1. NOT EVERY MEET IS A CHAMPIONSHIP MEET.

Going to start off with one of the basics.

Swim parents frequently email me in a panic because their swimmer added time at a recent meet. When asked if this was a shave-and-taper meet, or a meet that borders on any kind of significance, the answer is—“Well, not according to the coach.” The in-season meet can seem like an odd concept for the neophyte swim parent: “You want my little swimmer to go to a meet and more than likely swim slower than they usually would?”

Yeah, basically.

In-season meets are designed to teach racing skills, educate swimmers on how to prepare to race, learn to race when tired and it gives them a break from regular training.

2. YOU CAN’T ALWAYS PREDICT THE BIG BREAKTHROUGHS.

Here’s a personal example that swimmers will be able to relate to. Over the summer I dedicated myself to sprinting as many 50s long course as I could, with the end-of-summer goal being able to swim a :25 from a push. The plan was straight-forward: I would start by doing 300 reps at :28, with the cautious expectation being that by the time I got to #300 swimming a :27 would be a piece of cake.

I would then rinse and repeat with :27s, :26s, and so on. The number 300 was an edumacated guess that was conservative enough that I wouldn’t get discouraged if progress wasn’t happening fast enough, but specific enough that it gave me something concrete to chase after over the weeks and months.

So, was my guesstimation of 300 on the money? Not so much. By the time I got to rep #235 of :28s, swimming :27s had become “easy.” I then moved on to doing 300 reps of :27s. Which was nice—progress happened faster than I expected.

But as you can see, my guess was still way off. I especially couldn’t have predicated that rep #235 was going to be the magic number for the big breakthrough. In fact, the day that happened I was feeling remarkably unremarkable. There was nothing in the lead up to practice that day that suggested a breakthrough was coming along. This happened with the :26s and ultimately the :25s, too. At no point was I able to perfectly predict the breakthrough. They happened with due time and consistent effort.

The lesson should be clear.

Plateaus can quickly become demoralizing when we feel that we can perfectly predict results or outcomes. All you can do is show up every day to practice and do your absolute best in everything you do. The breakthrough might happen tonight, tomorrow, next week, or next month, but as long as you are showing up and putting in the reps it will happen.

3. IMPROVEMENT DOESN’T HAPPEN ALL AT ONCE.

One of the messy realities of getting better in the water is that it’s not just one thing you are trying to improve.

It’s a whole series of things: your catch, your pull, the way your hips rotate, your endurance, your strength, your mindset, the focus you use, the self-talk you use, and on and on and on. Problems happen when we look at the clock and use that as the only barometer for whether or not we are improving. But rarely does a time or placing tell the story of why or why you haven’t been improving. It’s almost never as simple as “I’m getting faster” or “I’m getting worse.”

Yes, you might have added time to your PB—but did you swim a better technical race? Are you in the middle of hard training? Did you execute a smarter race strategy? The clock might not lie, but it doesn’t tell the whole truth about your performance. There is always something you can work on in the water that has nothing to do with the clock.

Technique. Stroke counts. Better turns.This highlights a very powerful reality of the sport that you need to especially remember when in the pits of a plateau: Swimming fast starts with swimming well.

4. IMPROVING SOMETIMES MEANS GETTING WORSE FIRST.

Think about the last time you learned a new skill or technique, whether it was in the pool or not. Those first few attempts were okay, because you had no expectations, right? You expected to not be able to do it perfectly right off the bat, so it was okay that you were sucky at it.

But as you got more proficient, your expectations went up, so that by the fifth or sixth time you were struggling, it starts to get a little frustrating. You might even perform worse, which makes no sense on the face of things.

Sometimes we get worse before we get better. Just keep showing up. Keep working at it. That breakthrough is just waiting around the corner to surprise the chlorine out of you.

5. THE BETTER YOU GET, THE HARDER IT WILL BECOME TO IMPROVE.

Frustrated that you aren’t dropping enough time now? Just wait till you get really good. Mark Tewksbury, Olympic gold medalist in the 100m backstroke at the 1992 Olympics, went seven years of training in order to drop 1.2 seconds on his best time.After 2009, Michael Phelps didn’t get a single personal best time in any of his major events for the rest of his career. Think about that for a second: seven years, countless meets, never swimming as fast as you once were.

When we are young and new to the sport we improve by leaps and bounds. Not only because we are learning at an accelerated rate, but we are also physically growing and changing like crazy.

The source of improvement becomes very muddled when you are learning tons of new skills, growing a couple inches per year, and getting the meters and training under our belt to put those skills to use.

Just as progress will sometimes be almost exponential at an early age, the older you get, and the slower you grow, and the better you are, the harder those PBs will be to crack-a-lack.

6. YOU IMPROVE AT YOUR OWN RATE.

Plateaus can feel crushingly personal at times: you feel stuck in the mud while your teammates or competition are improving at light-speed. The rate you improve is going to be different than others, so be wary of comparing yourself to other swimmers, especially if you are going to base your effort and motivation on how others swim.

Look, I get it: Competitive swimming is a competitive sport. Which means that we are perpetually comparing ourselves to swimmers in the next lane. But instead of locking your focus on what other swimmers are doing, make sure that you are doing everything you can to be the best swimmer you can be.

7. IMPROVING MEANS MAKING THINGS HARDER ON YOURSELF IN TRAINING.

Okay, so now it’s time for some hard truth. You probably aren’t plateauing. Whenever I get a panicked email about a swimmer who is stuck, it’s usually because they are doing the same old thing and expecting new results.

Are you doing the same 100s at the same interval, with the same stroke count, at the same speed? Are you putting in the bare minimum when it comes to eating like a champion? Are you not doing anything extra (naps, foam rolling, massage, stretching/mobility work/getting to bed early) to recover between swim workouts? It’s easy to feel your swimming come to a shuddering halt, immediately point your finger and bubble-scream through the water, “Plateau!”

Yes, you might be working hard, but effort is not only subjective, it isn’t enough: If you aren’t also working faster and with greater degrees of difficulty how reasonable is it to think you are going to burst through?

Drop five seconds off your intervals. Take one less stroke per lap. Do one extra dolphin kick off the wall. Sleep an extra hour tonight. Take one meal each day and make it twice as healthy. Add five pounds to the weights you are lifting this week. Spend an extra ten minutes working on your self-talk skills.

Often when we are stuck or “plateaued” it’s because we are stubbornly sticking to what we’ve been doing without making any moves forward. The hardest thing about improving is that it’s a relentless progression of your process. It never ends. No matter how fast you get, no matter how well conditioned you become, your process needs to continually improve…or you simply won’t.

THE SECRET TO BREAKING PLATEAUS IS IN YOUR PROCESS .Are you consistently elevating your process? If so, it’s all good. This plateau will pass quickly enough. You are doing the right things. Swimmers treat race day performances as a report card for their swimming. Which is ridiculous: You take one race, usually less than a couple minutes long, and use that one swim to indict a whole season of training. Instead of looking at the result, look at your preparation and process.

Are you improving in training? Are you doing more meters at a faster speed? Are you spending heaps of time refining your stroke? Are you working on cleaning up your nutrition and sleeping habits?

Before you decide that you are in the middle of a plateau take a look at your training and ask if you are progressing with your process. If you are consistently improving your process, guess what? The results will absolutely come, this I promise you.