We always need to focus on our passions. Passions will naturally bring us the things in life we desire.
Freedom to be your unique self - it is here and now. Do not buy into the illusion for that is slave mentality. Remember always, you have choices.
It starts with one small step and grows a little bit everyday. Nurture this in yourself. Watch your ultimate creation grow and be grateful. Say thank you. You never did this alone.
Apply that knowledge you have discovered from all of your adventures. This is when knowledge becomes WISDOM. The sweetest and most satisfying life experience that exists.