When we say that reality is Christ we are saying that we are living in God's reality - the reality of our Father, Jesus and Holy Spirit who surround us with their presence and live in us to manifest and express themselves as our person. This is the opposite to the illusions and delusion of religion where we live in the shell and miss the core. The reality is Christ and we are real as persons and sons when He is our life.
Rejoicing in being one's real self in Christ
All of us, even the men are the New Eve. This is to say that we come out of Christ's side as Eve came out of Adam. As such we are part of Him and in our individuality and as the Bride of Christ we make Him complete. The church is Jesus multiplied and made real in the earth.
We are competent to minister the Kingdom Jesus began when we minister the new covenant in its new covenant power and glory. This entirely the simplicity of Christ our life - Christ in you. Some minister a dulled and fogged gospel that is a Christian version of the knowledge of good and evil. Sincerity is not enough to minister the Kingdom of God. Reality is Christ - not as Christianity and religion but as His life as ours. This is life in the Spirit. It is Christ come in the flesh and the living way of making heaven real where we are. In this mode we are emit rivers of spirit and life because we are life-giving spirits.
Christ come in our flesh is the reality and living water of the New Testament age.
We can come to the end of our lives without ever having realised that the gospel we ministered was not the gospel of the Kingdom and without seeing that what we gave our lives too was a delusion - because we did not want to see. Or because we did not want to know that we had been lied too and because we chose to remain oblivious because we had made our own christ and our own identity and found our own status and sought our own security in that other husband that had been handed to us as children. As a result we remained children all our lives - imagining that we were in the Spirit when we were in the law or a version of it and in old Adam instead of in the Christ of God. As such we released droplets of life but not rivers. We can produce convoluted theologies of fictions and rationalisation in support of our 'other gospel.' We will go to heaven but release little of heaven on earth because we have separated ourselves from spirit and life. But reality is Christ.
Our new covenant life is not an old car with a new coat of paint.