Is this situation realistic? Could this happen within our school or surrounding community?
What’s problematic about this situation? What concerns or “red flags” do you notice in this scenario?
Have you ever witnessed or observed a similar situation? If you are willing, please share your experience(s).
What responsibility might you have in this situation to the person(s) being targeted? To the person causing the potential harm or abuse? To your school? To yourself?
Have you ever observed someone intervene or get involved in a similar situation before? If so, what did they do? What was the outcome?
Why might an observer in this situation choose to be silent or not get involved? What’s the potential IMPACT to those involved here if no one intervenes or disrupts this situation?
Give examples of how a friend or classmate might respond “directly” in this situation? How might someone respond utilizing a “distraction” in this situation?
If you didn’t intervene or respond immediately in this situation, what might you consider saying or doing later?
To whom could you go to for help? What additional resources might be needed?
Which of the examples shared thus far would you most likely use in a situation like this? Why?
Do nothing. It's none of your business.
Tell my friend that I'm concerned about his jealousy, and he needs to chill out a bit and give his girlfriend some space.
Talk to some of our friends, let them know what I've observed, and ask them if they have concerns about the relationship.
Talk to my parent, or a teacher or coach that I trust, and ask them for advice about what to do.
Tell my friend that he should consider seeing a counselor or another professional because his behavior seems unhealthy and could get him in trouble.
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