Every child comes with a genetic predisposition to tend towards certain attitudes and behaviours. This is known as their temperament (Vialle, Lysaght, & Verenikina, 2005).
An accurate depiction of parenting a toddler
Children who exhibit certain tendencies such as fear or anxiety in infancy tend to carry those tendencies into adulthood (Rothbart & Bates, 1998); however, social and environmental factors can change these predispositions over time (Kagan, 1998).
As educators, it is worth keeping this in mind when dealing with children who exhibit unusual temperaments, such as being excessively erratic, fearful or shy. It is worth considering that with consistent, safe exposure and reactions to new situations, student scan overcome their hitherto "pre-set" temperament and learn healthier ways to respond to everyday situations.
Personality is a broader idea that temperament, and encompasses such attributes as temperament, intelligence, attitudes and ways of behaving (Vialle, Lysaght, & Verenikina, 2005). There are five dimensions of personality that are considered relevant for educators:
The "Big Five" Personality Traits
Studies have suggested that those who score highly on conscientiousness and agreeableness tend to achieve better academic outcomes.
It can be useful to discuss personality traits with students, as many will revel in the opportunity to reflect on themselves. In addition, it provides a non-judgmental way to talk about other ways of thinking and being that may not have occurred to them before.
The video below gives an excellent, simple and clear introduction to the history of personality types.
During their second year of life, infants begin to recognise their own reflection in a mirror (Lewis & Brooks‐Gunn, 1979). This is the beginning of their relationship with their own sense of themselves.
As children develop, so too does their ability to use language and analyse how they see themselves. At the age of six, students are able to distinguish themselves in terms of simple concrete characteristics, whereas at the age of eight, they have a more complicated view of themselves and are able to identify their own strengths and weaknesses (Vialle, Lysaght, & Verenikina, 2005).
As children move into adolescence, they have usually formed definite ideas about themselves in a number of areas. How they value these areas, and the way they perceive their own place within them, will contribute to their sense of self worth. Again, studies suggest that children and adolescents with secure attachments will both have better relationships with their peers and perform better academically (Deković & Meeus, 1997; Marsh & Seaton, 2013).
calm your farm
In popular culture, Emotional Intelligence is a term that broadly focuses on an individual's ability to recognise and manage one's own emotions and the hitherto under-appreciated benefits that come with it (Goleman, 2006).
Goleman believes that emotional intelligence is more important than the traditional concept of intelligence, and that these skills can be taught to children.
Below is a list of characteristics of an emotionally intelligent person, as listed in Vialle et al. (2005).
And they get more marshmallows, too
Schools nowadays pay great attention to students' emotional intelligence and try various methods to explicitly teach these skills to students. Could you convince your students to wait for that delicious marshmallow? Would you wait for it yourself or gobble it up?
i think i can, i think i can
One of the most important qualities a student can cultivate is that of resilience, which can be defined as "the ability to overcome adversity or stress and attain emotional health and social competence" (Anthony & Cohler, 1987).
During adolescence, students are particularly vulnerable to succumbing to pessimistic ways of thinking Vialle et al. (2005). Aside from parents, schools are the best places to promote resilience in a safe and controlled environment. In some cases, a well-designed systematic program can be useful in teaching the basic skills of resilience to at-risk adolescents.
Adventure education is another often-cited way to promote resilience in a controlled environment. Students, often adolescents or young adults, are placed in challenging, but controlled environments and are encouraged to find ways to persevere. They then reflect on their changes in psychology and report benefits in resilience (Neill & Dias, 2001).
"There is substantial evidence from well controlled studies that skills that increase resilience, positive emotion, engagement and meaning can be taught to schoolchildren." - (Seligman, Ernst, Gillham, Reivich, & Linkins, 2009)
Programs such as the Geelong Grammar's Timbertop Programme, where students spend the whole of Year 9 living simply in cabins in the wilderness and learning about resilience, mindfulness and gratitude, has a focus on positive education and has been lauded as a great success worldwide (Seligman, Ernst, Gillham, Reivich, & Linkins, 2009).
but what can we do?
As you have seen, so much of the education world of the learner comes back to what kind of attachment the child has with his or her primary caregiver. As an educator, there is nothing you can do about that particular relationship! However, Vialle et. al (2005) have provided a useful list of recommendations for teachers looking to adopt a sensitive and positive approach to students' emotions. They are as follows:
- Provide opportunities for students to experience success on academic, social and physical tasks.
- Focus students' attention on their own improvement rather than on competition.
- Give constructive and encouraging feedback.
- Communicate genuine interest in students' welfare.
- Become aware of your own biases and remember the power of teacher expectations.
- Create a classroom climate that is physically and psychologically safe.
- Model emotionally intelligent behaviour.
- Teach emotional vocabulary.
- Increase students emotional awareness through targeted approaches.
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Marshmallow Test: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QX_oy9614HQ
Prince Charles Geelong Grammar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-mbhWGvkBM0
Measuring Personality: Crash Course Psychology #22: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUrV6oZ3zsk
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