Don't let any person or any institution tell you who must be. Hidden in Christ and with Jesus as your life you will live to your design and realise your destiny. Who you are is who you are becoming in the Fatherhood of Father and the sonship/daughtership of you.
Realising your freedom to be by being captive to Jesus alone
Our advantage is that we all possess this inheritance from our conception in the trinity. Whether we utilise it or leave it dormant depends on whether we believe it. To have the mind of Christ is to have His mindset; the mindset that is His Gospel of the Kingdom. You are graced by Jesus in person to grow into your real self as Jesus manifests His life through you and His Spirit guides you. This is the new covenant in spirit and in truth: Christ as you. It is the arrangement in which He is our life and we are interwoven into the fullness of God, just like Jesus was. He referenced this and urged us to access it when He said, 'On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you' John 14.20 NIV.
"Those who eat me will live because of Me.'
Intentionally entering this communion with God means that all the fullness of the God-Head dwells in us. This is the big deal of the new testament age - not the anointing of Holy Spirit. Why? Holy Spirit anointing is dependent on this union. It is grows from it. The Spirit and His gifts cannot be sustained without it, like a tomato plant that is taken out of pot and not transplanted in the soil of the garden. Left on the side walk it withers and a dies. This is why new covenant living is a must and not an option.
Better to be red than dead!
Look at it this way. There are creeks, more accurately described as dry gullies. They flow intermittently. This is the person living in old covenant separation from God, grasping at the anointing and experiencing some fitful dribbles of water. Then there are rivers that flow continually. They are broad and deep. This is the new covenant believer interwoven with God who as a result has the Spirit without limit and who is never in danger of his few pools drying up.