Rohr writes, "Spirituality is about seeing. It's not about earning or achieving. It's about relationship rather than results or requirements. Once you see, the rest follows. You don't need to push the river, because you are in it. The life is lived within us, and we learn how to say yes to that life.If we exist on a level where we can see how "everything belongs," we can trust the flow and trust the life, the life so large and deep and spacious that it even includes its opposite, death. We must do this, because it is the only life available to us, as Paul wrote to the Colossians, "You have died [the small ego self], and the life you now have is hidden with Christ in God [the Godself]. When Christ is revealed - and he is your life - you too will be revealed in all your glory with him" (Col. 3:3-4). (2)
(1) Rohr, Richard. Everything Belongs: The Gift of Contemplative Prayer (p. 22). The Crossroad Publishing Company. Kindle Edition. (2) Ibid (pp. 33-34).