If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.
Charles Bukowski loved alcohol, women and cigarettes
But he also loved to write (about alcohol, women and cigarettes).
His unique take on LOVE was influenced by his addictions.
A contrarian, nothing about his life or written works was normal
"Love breaks my bones and I laugh."
He had the ability to speak to the soul of those who were in dark places, much like himself.
If you're losing your soul and you know it, then you've still got a soul left to lose