Story by Leann Burke | Photos by Traci Westcott
When you think of a straw-bale house, three little pigs and a wolf with strong lungs probably come to mind. Outside of a nursery rhyme though, a straw-bale house would be difficult to blow down, no matter how much huffing and puffing you put into it.
Just ask Darren and Espri Bender-Beauregard of Paoli. Ten years ago, the couple built a straw-bale house on 12 acres of land near where Espri grew up. In the years since, the couple has had three daughters — Viola, 9, and twins Eleanor and Sylvia, 6 — who call the straw-bale house home, and they’ve built a life centered around homesteading and sustainable living.
“We actually found that a dishwasher uses less water than hand-washing,” Darren said.
Upstairs is the office, bathroom and the girls’ rooms. At the foot of the stairs, a bookcase stretches from the floor to the ceiling.
The house is extraordinary, but inside, the family lives a life like that of anyone else. One September evening, the sound of Viola, Eleanor and Sylvia clamoring around upstairs with their friend from next door echoed through the house as Darren prepared hamburgers for dinner and Espri cleaned up after a long day of building a shed.
“It’s easy for us to forget [that] what we’re doing isn’t normal,” Darren said as the hamburgers — made from meat harvested from a cow he raised — sizzled on the grill.
Espri and Darren raise most of the food their family eats, whether it be organic produce grown in their gardens and orchards, eggs and meat from their flock of chickens or beef from a small herd of Dexter cows. They could milk the cows, too, but they instead purchase whole milk from an Amish farmer they know.
That’s not to say there’s never a trip to the grocery store. A box of Reese’s Puffs cereal sat on the counter one afternoon, and the girls dug into it after they got home from school at Throop Elementary in Paoli.
“We’re not sustainability ‘purists’ by any means,” Darren said. “I think it’s important for people to start with whatever aspect they’re comfortable with.”
For some, that could mean having a vegetable garden in the backyard or purchasing more food from local sources, Darren explained. For him and his family, it means going all in for the homesteading lifestyle.
In the 10 years since Espri and Darren built their straw-bale home, their plot of land has grown from 12 acres to about 32, and the pair now operates Brambleberry Farm on the property. The farm is a small permaculture operation that provides fruit, nut and berry plants that Espri and Darren sell to the public. They also offer consulting services and educational tours for those interested in sustainable living. There’s a lot to see on the tours.
Walking around the property feels like walking down a nature trail, as Espri and Darren grow many of the food trees they sell, and several gardens flourish on the property.
One summer afternoon, the Dexter cattle grazed in a pasture near the house while Darren and Espri worked in the greenhouses. Darren uses tree grafting to grow the trees sold in the nursery, and Espri keeps them all watered using water from a 9,000-gallon cistern that collects rainwater for their nursery and animals. A separate cistern collects rainwater to be filtered and used in the home. The cistern system provides running water throughout the property, and the girls even have a small cistern hooked up to their playhouse in the yard that gives them a working sink.
That’s just one way the girls learn about sustainable living. They also have a handful of rabbits that they care for after school, and part of that involved helping build the enclosure the bunnies live in. The girls also learn about edible plants when Espri and Darren take them on walks.
“I would say for me [this lifestyle] has been a life building on different parts,” he said. “I grew up in the mountains, and I would just play outside in the woods with my friends after school, and I think that’s really where I got my love for nature and being outside. I think a more sustainable lifestyle started in high school where I did an experiment on simple living. That made me aware of how my lifestyle impacts nature.”
Espri and Darren met at Indiana’s Goshen College. Espri was studying art and psychology; Darren was studying biology and environmental science. They both credit college with being the point where they fully committed to a sustainable lifestyle.
During their college years, they each worked on organic farms where they learned a lot of the skills they use at Brambleberry Farm today. After Darren graduated, the couple spent a year in Tucson, Arizona, doing full-time volunteer service through the Mennonite Voluntary Service — they currently attend Paoli Mennonite Fellowship church — that ended up being sort of on-the-job training for the life they’ve built. Darren spent the year helping people establish backyard gardens, and Espri worked on home repair for elderly and low-income families.
They moved back to Indiana in 2003, got married and eventually started work on the straw-bale house. It took them two and a half years to build, and they moved in right before Viola was born.
Although Viola, Eleanor and Sylvia are growing up immersed in sustainable living, Darren and Espri don’t believe they’re raising the next Greta Thunberg, and they aren’t necessarily trying to. Their goal is to model a fulfilling life that is also Earth-conscious, and they hope at least some of those lessons will stick with their daughters once they’re adults.
“I have no illusion that my kids will want to be back here and farm with us when they’re adults,” Darren said. “I mean, that would be awesome, but really I hope that they take this wherever they go and can make connections with people and places that they wouldn’t otherwise.”
In the 10 years since moving into their home, Darren and Espri have done a lot of trial and error as they’ve sought out the best way to live sustainably, and they still look at the lifestyle as a constant learning experience.
Espri and Darren emphasize that they’re living a sustainable life because they find it fulfilling. They don’t believe they’re saving the Earth from climate change. They know that just by living in the U.S. and having a car, their carbon footprint is bigger than that of most people in the world.